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10/3/2013 2 Comments Find the Symbolism: If Relationship Motivates, Make Relationship with Everything...If my food, my meals, were my lovers & not simply in the eating to "attempting-to-fill-my-relational-hole" expression, but food became personified; a lover, a friend, a stranger, the relationship with my mother or father, or brother, Self. What would this say about my actions in relationship? Am I taking too much? Am I savoring too little? Am I choosing what is the best for me --as I understand 'best' at this time-- or Am I settling with how much and whatever is put in front of me? Am I addicted to choosing what is not the healthiest for me & do I believe that this can change? Am I really giving him the attention he deserves? (Am I constantly eyeing my phone, or working on the computer while in your presence without concern or informing?) Am I turning from what I do not want to believe? Am I working to make things better for me, for us, or am I content with the taste of mediocrity? Do I trust that he will be enough? Do I trust I will be taken care of? Do I expect too much of him? All this and only more I can imagine... What if the way I eat and what I eat is directly correlated to how I love others; how I love myself? How do I expect to treat a partner with the love and affection I so hope to, if I do not give the same quality of love and affection to the substances I spend a significant portion of my lifetime with? The more tender I treat my meals, the more tender I treat others/ self. The more thought into choosing my food, the more thought goes into choosing my company. The more aware I am with the flavors on my folk, The more aware I am of the essence of the beings who I walk with in this life. The more present I am with my the status of my stomach, The more present I am with others/ self. At least I would imagine these are some of the formulas hold true for me... I think its time to change my bouts of mindless eating, & of what I am eating -- while I have come to believe in a more holistic way of living the last few years, I have not been living too closely to an ideal balance this last year. Here's to taking steps to making changes, praying for these changes to occur through me -- physically, mentally, spiritually, and otherwise -- for the sake of a greater version of self & of all others. All the love & whatever is the 'best' to you too.. xox
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Bill
10/28/2013 02:39:01 pm
You are amazing :)
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Bre
10/28/2013 04:31:45 pm
Bless you, friend! You are too kind!
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